Month: March 2020

May 2022. This is a post from the beginning of the pandemic. It’s been sitting in my draft folder for more than two years now. I am publishing it without revising, so please excuse its first-draft form.

It was a disjointed day. I dropped Matt off at work at 7:30 downtown, then drove home, then drove back downtown to turn in my computer and bring back all the workstation things. Then I drove home and then drove back downtown at 4 to pick Matt up from work.

I cast about for some way to celebrate the end of this phase of my life. I ended up with a Redbox movie and frozen Mac&Cheese for lunch, plus napping and reading. Matt and I got takeout at Fino for dinner.

I feel tired and wrung out. Tomorrow’s my first day on my own schedule. We shall see how it goes.

May 2022. This is a post from the beginning of the pandemic. It’s been sitting in my draft folder for more than two years now. I am publishing it without revising, so please excuse its first-draft form.

Back in 2018, I thought I was going to start a personal finance blog. You know, with all my free time. It turned out that 3SMReviews.com and starting up Keen Eye took up all of my extra time and I gave up that dream. And it was a dream. I really love writing about money.

And even with my solid job, frugal living, and good savings habits, finances always seemed precarious to me. What if I got cancer? How would that affect my savings rate? Would the astronomical yearly increases for health coverage keep me from meeting my financial goals? All of this went unexamined.

But look! Unemployment! A chance to discuss my finances regularly on this blog!

For the foreseeable future, I’ll be doing a monthly check in about what unemployment is doing to the state of my finances.

One of the first things I did was revamp my budget. I use YNAB for budgeting, and I love it. There’s a bit of a learning curve, but it’s the best way I’ve found that lets me save for long term things and adapt to changing financial circumstances. (#nowmorethanever)

If you want to try YNAB, use this link and both of us get a free month. I’m happy to talk you through the YNAB process, though they have free classes.

My budget got revised into three categories: Fixed Expenses, Cut Back When Cushion is Exhausted, and Full Time Work.

I then pulled every extraneous dollar into my Tax Return category, which I renamed Tax Return/Cushion. This turned out to be a good amount, as I had been saving up for some things that either can’t happen right now or aren’t a thing anymore.

Flying to Arizona twice per year to visit my dad? The April trip is cancelled, and I will apply that to the October trip. I will hopefully use miles for the April 2021 trip. The Reverse Loft Bed I was going to build on my five-year sabbatical? I was let go at four years and two months, so there will be no five-year sabbatical.

My plan is this:

• All incoming money will go to the Cushion account, which I will use to budget my monthly expenses.
• When the Cushion account has been depleted, I will draw down my Emergency Fund.
• If I get to the dire state of my Emergency Fund being depleted, I will cut all expenses to the bone and use my credit cards.
• If things are incredibly terrible, I will tap my retirement accounts.

I was about six months away from meeting my Emergency Fund goal of having six months worth of basic expenses. It’s disappointing that I won’t be contributing for the foreseeable future. But at least I have an emergency fund. Many Americans do not.

I really don’t want to have to tap into my retirement accounts, because I feel like I’m behind, but if it means the difference between being homeless and working more years until I retire, I will tap them. And thank goodness that there is money available.

So let’s look at my monthly financials:

Income this month: $4602.72

This includes:

• DHM pay + two weeks of severance: $4524.22
• Keen Eye Pay: $28.50
• Cash back rewards from my credit card: $50.00
• Not included in income because it messes up my averages (and isn’t income anyway) is my tax return for 2019: $1181.00

Expenses this month: $2683.61

This includes:

• An example of why cats, though I love them, are expensive: $1,721.28 for a surgery, blood work for two cats, and a prescription
• Me paying more than half of the Joint Account expenses while Matt gets things up and running with the counseling business and the new job at the jail.

Amount of Cushion: $6527.85

Amount of Emergency Fund: $9353.08

So you can see I’m in pretty good shape for this unemployment thing, at least for the first bit of time.

I pulled my expenses for the last 15 months and found the average was $2029.68 with a low of $1214.46 and a high of $3166.38. I will endeavor to keep those expenses closer to the $1200 amount and further from the $3100 amount.

I’ll have a better idea next month what unemployment will bring. And hopefully I will have some increased income from Keen Eye.

May 2022. This is a post from the beginning of the pandemic. It’s been sitting in my draft folder for more than two years now. I am publishing it without revising, so please excuse its first-draft form.

I QA’d two reports today. Both grammar and number. What that means is that there were two reports (both in Word, one 25 pages, one 19 pages) and I read them over checking that all the numbers used were correct, then read them again to see if all the grammar was correct.

This is a part of my job I’ve liked. Indeed, it is the part of the job I’m focusing on growing into a business during this time of unemployment. It’s the part of the job that inspired me to get a certificate in copyediting.

Still, two Word reports in one day is usually a situation I would try to avoid. But today is the last full day, so I did them both as best I can.

The reason I had to do two reports in one day is that one of my colleagues informed us all last Monday that she wouldn’t be able to write the report that was scheduled to be done on the upcoming Friday. So another colleague got to do the heavy lift of writing a report from scratch (because the assigned report writer had not started, despite theoretically working on it the previous week) and the deadline got moved to the very last full day, when there already was a report due.

I was only slightly irritated with this situation until another coworker complained that he thought it was unfair that the initial report writer wasn’t going to be paid for the last week of work and wasn’t going to get the severance package and didn’t we all agree?

I wrote back that I did not and my irritation moved from slight to complete.

On the one hand, none of this matters because people are dying and as of tomorrow none of these people will be my coworkers, but on the other hand, the gall of the person who dropped the ball completely, made more than a few people’s work life difficult and then got mad that they weren’t paid?

Also today, I had to call the tech people and tell them to cancel all the emails except for four of my colleagues who apparently are continuing with the company in some capacity. I’m a bit annoyed no one has asked me to continue working, as work allows, but also not surprised. The people in charge like to be flattered and I’m not a flatterer.

So here I am, a prickly nearly unemployed employee of a company I’ve been with four four years. I’m looking forward to dragging my work station in, turning in my computer, and starting the next phase of my life.

May 2022. This is a post from the beginning of the pandemic. It’s been sitting in my draft folder for more than two years now. I am publishing it without revising, so please excuse its first-draft form.

I’ve been working my day job and about 10 hours a week on my side job for more than a year now. Sometimes it’s manageable. But if it’s a weekend with too many activities, or a week with too many evening things, it’s hard to fit everything in.

My weekends mostly aren’t relaxing. Do the side job work. Cook. Clean. Hang out with the boyfriend. Hang out with friends or family. There hasn’t been a lot of time to just hang out with me.

But this weekend there was. I slept in today. Got up and fed the cats at 5 and then fell back asleep until eight. It took me a long time to get out of bed and when I did, getting the things done was fine. There was enough time.

I’m pretty good at structuring my days. But I’m not great at letting unstructured time be okay.

But maybe without the day job, things will shake down a little differently.

This is the first Sunday I’ve felt rested and ready to face my week in a very long time.

May 2022. This is a post from the beginning of the pandemic. It’s been sitting in my draft folder for more than two years now. I am publishing it without revising, so please excuse its first-draft form.

Every March, Boyfriend Matt attends Gamestorm, which is a three-day gaming convention. He goes to play board games, but there are other types of gamers there too.

He’s got a group of friends who attend and they usually make a new friend or two. I don’t see much of him for a few days, he has fun, and that’s all just fine.

GameStorm was cancelled this year, of course. But the guys had all taken time off of work to attend, so they are carrying on regardless. They met up online around 9, and connected their voices via their phones. I’ve been working away at my desk in my bedroom and I can overhear their gaming chatter.

And that’s the reason why I’m glad we’re having this pandemic now. There are so many ways to stay connected. It makes the isolation easier.

Matt’s back gaming, and I’m done working today. I’ve got a hot date with a Redbox DVD. This isn’t much different than non-quarantine Friday nights. Usually Matt is gaming at a friend’s house, and I’m at home with a movie.